Sexual identity
Intermediate concepts

Supporting gender and sexual identity

As your child grows up, they will develop their own unique personality and identity.

Introduction

As your child grows up, they will develop their own unique personality and identity. Learning about who they are and trying different things is important for any child growing up. Your support at this time can help your child to become increasingly independent while at the same time building confidence that will help to keep them safe.

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Conversation Starters

I noticed you were looking at the woman in the poster. Do you think she’s attractive?

I want you to be able to express yourself in a way that you’re comfortable with. Can we figure out together how you can do that safely?

There’s a new dating show on TV. What do you think about the people on that show?

Strategies for you to try

Support your child to try new activities.

This will help them to figure out what they like and don’t like

Support your child to meet new people, especially children of a similar age.

This will help them to develop their social skills, identify the type of people they like, and develop new relationships

Include your child in family routines, rituals and celebrations, and explain religious and cultural significance, if any, of those occasions.

This will help them to feel a sense of belonging and inclusion

Resources

Sexual identity

All About Sex - Lesbian

Sexual identity

All About Sex - Gay

Sexual identity

All About Sex - Bisexual

Sexual identity

All About Sex - Transgender

Sexual identity

All About Sex - Intersex

Sexual identity

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To read

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Twenty10 - Gay and Lesbian Counselling Service of NSW

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Next steps

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