Making friends and socialising with peers is an important part of adolescence. It helps your child to build their social skills, their confidence and self-esteem. It also helps them to develop the foundations for healthy relationships in the future.
Making friends starts with understanding the differences between people who are friends and people who are friendly, and having the opportunity to socialise with peers.
Who are friends?
Which people are not our friends?
Friends are people you like and who like you back. They are people you can talk to and share your feelings and experiences with. Friends are people who make you feel good when you’re with them.
Some people might have a lot of friends. Some people might have a few. That is okay. Not everybody you meet will be your friend.
Some important things about friends are:
- friends listen to each other
- friends share things with each other
- friends trust each other
- friends can sometimes disagree or have arguments. That is okay. Friends take time to try to work it out when they have disagreements or arguments
- friends can sometimes do things that make us upset. This doesn’t mean they aren’t your friend, but you should talk to them about why you are upset.
- friends shouldn’t upset you or make you feel bad all the time. They shouldn’t bully you or make you feel unsafe. Speak to somebody you trust if you need help.
Who are friends?
Which people are not our friends?
Friends are people you like and who like you back. They are people you can talk to and share your feelings and experiences with. Friends are people who make you feel good when you’re with them.
Some people might have a lot of friends. Some people might have a few. That is okay. Not everybody you meet will be your friend.
Some important things about friends are:
- friends listen to each other
- friends share things with each other
- friends trust each other
- friends can sometimes disagree or have arguments. That is okay. Friends take time to try to work it out when they have disagreements or arguments
- friends can sometimes do things that make us upset. This doesn’t mean they aren’t your friend, but you should talk to them about why you are upset.
- friends shouldn’t upset you or make you feel bad all the time. They shouldn’t bully you or make you feel unsafe. Speak to somebody you trust if you need help.
Who are friends?
Friends are people you like and who like you back. They are people you can talk to and share your feelings and experiences with. Friends are people who make you feel good when you’re with them.
Some people might have a lot of friends. Some people might have a few. That is okay. Not everybody you meet will be your friend.
Some important things about friends are:
- friends listen to each other
- friends share things with each other
- friends trust each other
- friends can sometimes disagree or have arguments. That is okay. Friends take time to try to work it out when they have disagreements or arguments
- friends can sometimes do things that make us upset. This doesn’t mean they aren’t your friend, but you should talk to them about why you are upset.
- friends shouldn’t upset you or make you feel bad all the time. They shouldn’t bully you or make you feel unsafe. Speak to somebody you trust if you need help.
Which people are not our friends?
It is equally important that your child understand which people aren’t their friends. This means understanding that just because somebody is friendly to you doesn’t mean they are your friend. This includes people like:
- teachers
- support workers
- doctors or health workers
- shop assistants
Who are friends?
Friends are people you like and who like you back. They are people you can talk to and share your feelings and experiences with. Friends are people who make you feel good when you’re with them.
Some people might have a lot of friends. Some people might have a few. That is okay. Not everybody you meet will be your friend.
Some important things about friends are:
- friends listen to each other
- friends share things with each other
- friends trust each other
- friends can sometimes disagree or have arguments. That is okay. Friends take time to try to work it out when they have disagreements or arguments
- friends can sometimes do things that make us upset. This doesn’t mean they aren’t your friend, but you should talk to them about why you are upset.
- friends shouldn’t upset you or make you feel bad all the time. They shouldn’t bully you or make you feel unsafe. Speak to somebody you trust if you need help.
Which people are not our friends?
It is equally important that your child understand which people aren’t their friends. This means understanding that just because somebody is friendly to you doesn’t mean they are your friend. This includes people like:
- teachers
- support workers
- doctors or health workers
- shop assistants
Conversation Starters
There are lots of different relationships in that movie. Who do you think are friends?
You’ve been in the swimming class with the same people for a while now. Would you call any of them your friends?
This is my friend Mickey. Do you want to introduce them to your friend?
Friends Info Guide CID
